Not many people would believe that the high school version of myself, with a 1.3 GPA, would one day play football for Pitt.
Truth is, I didn’t believe it either. I mean, how could I? I didn’t have any stars, offers, or even a social media presence to help gain any notoriety. I thought my story would end in suicide or selling drugs.
But what I did have was a passion for football and the world’s largest chip on my shoulder. Sometimes, that’s all you need.
Finding My Way
My journey began at Hudson Valley Community College, a Division III JUCO school. But, let me tell you, it was far from smooth sailing.
I moved there with just $600 in my pocket, unsure of how I’d make ends meet. I was working multiple jobs, including bouncing during fall camp, just to keep a roof over my head.
Despite my best efforts, I eventually found myself homeless, living out of my Jeep for a few nights. It was undoubtedly the lowest point of my life. I remember sitting in my car, staring at the ceiling, and thinking, “How did I get here? How will I ever get out?”
But even in those darkest moments, I held onto the slimmest glimmer of hope. I knew that the harder the story, the better it would be when I finally made it through. I refused to give up on my dreams, no matter how impossible they seemed.
Education Is Key
One of the biggest motivators that kept me going was the thought of being the first in my family to graduate college. I wanted to show them that anything was possible, even for a kid who finished last in his high school class.
When I finally got the opportunity to join as a walk-on at Eastern Michigan, I took it seriously. I told my mom I would get a scholarship in one semester and if I didn’t I would come back home and just work construction for the rest of my life. I worked my tail off to earn a spot on the travel roster and eventually earned a scholarship.
I was determined to prove that I wasn’t just a kid with a 1.3 GPA. In fact, I turned it around so much that I never finished a semester below a 3.0. I even made the Dean’s List. I can’t tell you how proud I was of that accomplishment.
A Unique Perspective
My time at Eastern Michigan and Pitt taught me the value of competition and self-awareness.
I learned that it’s about being the best version of myself, on or off the field. I had to outwork and outsmart my opponents, not just in games, but in life.
But in the process, I also built incredible friendships and relationships that I’ll cherish forever. It’s a delicate balance between being a fierce competitor and being a supportive teammate, but it’s a balance that I’ve learned to navigate.
I know it’s not the most popular opinion, but when I’m on the field, I’m trying to take someone’s job. You can call me what you want, but I’m not trying to be the most liked player out there. I’m trying to be the best.
I’m trying to be the best so that I can reach the highest levels of the sport and save my family. My mom is disabled and can’t work, and my dad works 12-hour shifts to keep us afloat back home.
To me, when I’m out there on that field, it’s not a game. It’s a job.
The Power Of Mentorship
One of the most crucial lessons I’ve learned throughout my journey is the importance of mentorship. I was fortunate to have mentors who believed in me and pushed me to be better.
For example, my high school track and field coach, Harry Meyers, was the first coach to really get on me about my grades and behavior. He showed me the reality of what my life would be like if I continued on the same path, and it was a wake-up call I desperately needed.
I also had the privilege of working with Anthony Kelly, a former football player who became my mentor and trainer. He not only trained me physically, but also took care of me financially when I couldn’t afford food. He even paid for my first football camp.
Without these mentors, I wouldn’t be where I am today. They taught me the importance of accountability, discipline, and hard work. They showed me that success is about the effort and dedication you put into your craft.
Contrasting Lifestyles
As I reflect on my journey, I can’t help but marvel at the contrast between where I started and where I am now. From being homeless and sleeping in my car to playing in over 50 Division I games and earning multiple degrees, it’s been a rollercoaster ride.
I remember during my JUCO days, I’d go to Wendy’s and spin the free meal wheel just to get a meal. It became a running joke with my friends. Now, I’m living in California with the freedom to pour back into my family and community that made me who I am today.
It’s truly surreal. Looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing about my journey. Every setback, every failure, and every moment of doubt has shaped me into the person I am today.
I’m proud of my JUCO roots, and I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had to play at Eastern Michigan and Pitt. I’ve met incredible people, formed lifelong friendships, and learned valuable lessons that extend far beyond the football field.
A Message Of Hope
To anyone out there who may be facing similar challenges, I want you to know that there is hope. Your past doesn’t define you, and your circumstances don’t determine your future.
If you keep pushing forward, working hard, and believing in yourself, you can overcome any obstacle. I’m living proof of that. I never would’ve thought that I’d have the opportunity to train with the Chiefs and Steelers after my journey.
So, find a mentor, surround yourself with positive influences, and never stop chasing your dreams. Remember, it’s not about how you start, but how you finish. Trust me, the finish line is worth every bit of the struggle.
